Suffering comes from attachment. Contemplate which areas in your life you may be holding too much attachment to. Is it a relationship that really isn't all that good for you? Is it a situation that your mind won't release? Perhaps something material that you know you are ready to move on from but the fear of the new and unknown keeps you bound, as well as any sentimental value the material item or items also holds. Are you too attached to your life the way it is right now and this holds you back from being open to new opportunities?